Know that everyone is different. Not Helpful 0 Helpful Make it clear that you are not interested in a sexual relationship unless it is a safe one. If something goes wrong and neither one of us has an orgasm, will I ever want to see this person again? Read More. I'm really thankful for this, thank you very much. It is a common myth that you cannot become pregnant or contract an STI the first time you have sex.
There are a lot of steps between holding hands and having sex.
How to Decide if You’re Ready for Sex
Don't let someone else decide for you by just going along with it. Other people may not have a problem with premarital sex. By De Elizabeth. In most U. When you decide to have sex, there's the possibility of pregnancy, catching a sexually transmitted infection STI such as chlamydiaor both.