So, no, this is not some unusual way of flirting — and the reasoning behind this is pretty clear. You do not date this girl, because she doesn't want to date you. I've been meaning to post my perspective on this. I know this might sound bad because it commoditizes people, to a degree. I suggest you read it.
Billina July 1, at 2:
When She Wants To Remain "Just Friends"
It's not as outlandish as it sounds, kids. Alex September 24, at 4: This means: Her post: Something She Dated September 24, at 3: Follow Alex: She has been online dating on-and-off for over 4 years.